Leonard Horst
It has already been a scorcher of a summer, and we still have a couple months of it ahead of us. Scientists and psychologists have studied the effects of extreme heat on humans for several decades and found there is a direct connection between long periods of heat, mood swings, and resulting behavior. In layman terms, people tend to get a little crankier, less patient with one another, and at times quite belligerent! A wise, elderly woman once said to me, “A smile is a little curve that straightens everything out!” I have pondered this saying over the years and believe there is more truth in it now than ever!
Across our Association, we have observed an increase in less than desirable behaviors, and in some cases, outright verbal assaults that are simply not acceptable in our community. We are an active, 55+ group of people who moved here to enjoy the multitude of amenities offered and each other’s company. It is okay to have different opinions on any given topic, and it is okay to express those opinions in a respectful manner. There are many avenues to share your thoughts with management and the board, and you are encouraged to use them. General Comment cards (white cards) are available at several locations throughout the community and the Administration office. Food & Beverage Comment cards are available in both restaurants and are included with your check-out folder. Our general manager welcomes your calls and is available for an in-person meeting by appointment.
Our world is certainly more stressful than in prior years, and it will take all of us practicing kindness and respect to change it for the better. Remember, “A smile is a little curve that straightens everything out!” Be well and be safe!