Rev. Jennifer Lambert, Sun Lakes United Methodist Church
In light of the recent heartbreaking news of a woman found deceased at her desk, we are reminded of the profound importance of connection and community. It’s a sobering thought—how many of us go about our days, perhaps even sitting next to someone, without truly noticing them? This tragedy calls us to reflect on the relationships in our lives and the ways we engage with those around us.
Friendships and fellowship are not just niceties—they are lifelines. They are the ways we care for one another, and in doing so, fulfill the commandments Jesus gave us: to love God and to love one another (Matthew 22:37-39). But how often do we pause to consider the people who sit next to us in worship, in our community gatherings, or even in our daily routines? Do we know their stories? Do we notice when they’re absent? And more importantly, do we reach out to them when they are missing?
Worshiping together in person is one of the most powerful ways we can maintain these connections. It’s an opportunity to see one another, to share in each other’s joys and burdens, and to remind ourselves that we are not alone. But beyond the walls of our faith communities, we are called to be intentional about maintaining relationships with those around us.
This October, Sun Lakes United Methodist Church is launching our Campaign for Kindness—a movement that extends beyond noticing others to actively doing good to others. Our campaign isn’t just about random acts of kindness, but about creating a culture of respect, love, humility, and compassion for all persons. Our church community is beautifully diverse, with both “red” and “blue” voters. But when we come together—whether on the church campus, in fellowship or worship, or even online—we are committing to “think purple.” This means that we choose kindness over division, respect over conflict, and love over indifference.
Being intentional means taking the time to check in with those who might be struggling, offering a listening ear, and simply being present. It means reaching out to those who are absent from our gatherings, not out of obligation, but out of genuine concern and love. In doing so, we build a stronger, more connected community where no one is overlooked or forgotten.
As we navigate our busy lives, let us remember to look up from our own desks, both literal and metaphorical, and notice those around us. Let us be the hands and feet of Jesus in our communities, loving God by loving one another. In this way, we honor the lives of those who might otherwise go unnoticed, and we build a community rooted in the love that Jesus calls us to live out every day.
Our Campaign for Kindness is an invitation for each of us to reflect on how we can contribute to this culture of care. Together, let us make Sun Lakes a place where kindness is not just an occasional gesture, but a way of life—a community where everyone feels seen, valued, and loved.
Sun Lakes United Methodist Church is located at 9248 E. Riggs Road, in Sun Lakes. Find us at www.sunlakesumc.org.
Sun Lakes United Methodist Church is a beacon of hope in the desert, extending unconditional love to all persons.